lst posting

Just started my blog today.. ^^ Actually i din really have the habit to write blog but due to some reason of my frenz, so i started writing.. Talking abt my frenz, actually i did emphatize her cos at the time of studying, she has to worry abt the problem of money. Due to some family problems, she had to be more careful in her spending now, cos had to save for future needs. Cos of that, she din go for movies like current youngsters, and always go for the cheapest food. In current society, everything talks abt money, education, transport, food and living. But is money really the most impt? Bcos of money, many ppl go and commit crimes, stress over lives, but isit really worth.. To some ppl, money may mean nothing, but they still can live in content and happy. Anyway, just hope my frenz will get better in life and everyone in the world to worry less abt the concerns of money.. Just happen to read my another frenz's blog, and found that she was writing abt r'ship problems, bcos of her previously failed r'ship, now she is more concientious and more protective towards herself, which make her subconciously trying not to fall into love so easily. Seeing her now troubled over love, actually did hurts me.. I was with her during her times of r'ship, i understand how deep she put into the r'ship and how much she did. Sometimes i even saw her cried, i was wondering is this what to expect from r'ship? R'ship should be mature, compromising and understanding. There is sure to have 1 party put in more effort in the r'ship, but the problem is how much you put in. If only 1 person does all the thing, it will be very tiring for the other party. R'ship needs 2 person to build up and efforts to keep it gng. Even a small msg in the day will also brightens up the other person's day, but if 1 party din even have the effort to do that, think mayb he/she has already not much interest in the r'ship. Sometimes during the process of wooing or dating, you may feel the sweetness at lst, however e.g. after the guy thinks he already gets the gal, and din really put in effort to keep the r'ship gng, and as time pass by, it may fade off. Communication to me think is quite impt, if both parties din have communication, you wun get to know the other person better and what the other person thinks. R'ship is not like you want to see the person or needs he/her then you find, it's not meaningful at all. If r'ship brings more hurt than happiness, than i rather din enter it. Ok, i have done for today, write more another day.. wish all the best to all my frenz! ^^